Love Language Test
Gary Chapman's five love languages are the five ways people most naturally give and receive love. Knowing yours — and your partner's — is one of the most practical things you can do for any relationship. This free test takes about 3 minutes.
Love Language Quiz — 5 Types
~20 questions · 3 min · Free
Answer honestly — think about what you miss most when it's absent, not just what sounds nicest. Your primary love language is what makes you feel most deeply valued.
Explore your relationship style →The 5 Love Languages
Words of Affirmation
Verbal praise, "I love you," encouraging texts — the spoken and written word matters most.
Acts of Service
Actions speak louder: cooking, helping, doing tasks to ease the other person's day.
Receiving Gifts
Thoughtful presents — the symbolism and thought behind the gift, not the price.
Quality Time
Undivided attention — phone away, eyes on them, fully present.
Physical Touch
A hug, a pat on the back, sitting close — physical presence as connection.
The emotional pattern underneath your love language
How your personality type shapes your love language
Frequently Asked Questions
What are the 5 love languages? ＋
Coined by Gary Chapman: (1) Words of Affirmation — verbal expressions of love and appreciation. (2) Acts of Service — doing things for the other person to ease their life. (3) Receiving Gifts — thoughtful presents as symbols of love. (4) Quality Time — undivided, present attention. (5) Physical Touch — physical closeness and non-sexual touch like hugs.
Can I have more than one love language? ＋
Yes — most people have a primary love language and a close secondary. The test identifies your strongest tendency, not a rigid box. Understanding all five helps you recognize when someone's showing love in their language, not yours.
Do love languages apply to friendship and family, not just romantic relationships? ＋
Absolutely. Love languages describe how you feel valued in any close relationship. A friend who shows up (Acts of Service) is speaking a different love language than one who texts you appreciation daily (Words of Affirmation). Both are meaningful — but you might feel one more deeply.
What if my partner has a different love language? ＋
This is very common — and it's usually the source of the disconnect where you feel you're working hard but your partner still feels unloved, and vice versa. Learning each other's primary love language is one of the most practical relationship tools there is.
How does love language relate to attachment style? ＋
They are related but different. Attachment style describes your core emotional security in relationships (secure, anxious, avoidant). Love language describes the medium through which you feel and express love. An anxiously attached person might have Words of Affirmation as their love language; an avoidant person might prefer Acts of Service precisely because it feels less emotionally exposed.